Author name: Trish

Individual counsellor in Kamloops, British Columbia dealing with anxiety, grief, depression, betrayal trauma and whatever else is getting in the way of enjoying your life.

When You’ve Hit a Wall…or Window: Intro to Self-Care

I’m sure we’ve all witnessed it.  Out of nowhere there’s an unmistakable thump of flesh and blood colliding with a solid surface.  In my case it was a poor misguided bird whose trajectory in life had been rudely interrupted by my living room window.  I always feel so bad for the little guys and hate

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Selfishness vs Self-Care

Selfishness vs. Self-care A few years ago I had a counsellor suggest to me that I needed to work on self-care. I thought my self-care was fine. I eat mostly healthy – especially if you consider chocolate a health food. I exercise – sometimes sporadically but I’m regular in my irregularity. I visit my chiropractor

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6 Habits of Resilient Caregivers

  I think it probably will happen to most of us at least once in life – we unexpectedly become a round-the-clock caregiver. This past week I watched someone close to me thrown into that role while on a family vacation. It was not part of the plan. It came without warning. No one was

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Caregiver or Babysitter: Who’s in Charge of Your Mind?

A few weeks ago I introduced you to a part of your mind I referred to as “Crazy Rabbit Brain.” Today I want to introduce you to other characters that may live in your mind – “The Babysitter” and “The Caregiver.”   This is not a blog about who you hire to babysit your children.

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What Will Your Little Girl Be?

  A few years ago we went camping with some friends who had little children. In the morning, the sun hadn’t quite warmed things up when the kids grew crazy excited about hitting the beach. Freezing water was completely ignored as they splashed and kicked in the surf or balanced on an air-filled sea creature.

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